public void sendMensage(Mensagem m) {
    ContentValues values = new ContentValues();
    values.put("id_send", m.getId_send());
    values.put("id_receiver", m.getId_receiver());
    values.put("conteudo", m.getContent());

    conn.insertOrThrow("mensagem", null, values);
  }
  public ArrayList findMensagesByIdReceiver(int id_receiver) {

    String[] data = new String[] {"" + id_receiver, "" + id_receiver};
    Cursor cursor =
        conn.query(
            "mensagem", null, "id_receiver = ? or id_send = ?", data, null, null, "dataEnviada");
    // Cursor cursor = conn.query("mensagem", null, null, null, null, null, "dataEnviada");

    ArrayList<Mensagem> results = new ArrayList<Mensagem>();
    Mensagem m;

    if (cursor.getCount() > 0) {
      cursor.moveToFirst();
      do {
        m = new Mensagem();
        m.set_id(cursor.getInt(0));
        m.setId_send(cursor.getInt(1));
        m.setId_receiver(cursor.getInt(2));
        m.setContent(cursor.getString(3));
        m.setDateOfSend(cursor.getString(4));
        m.setNameReceiver(this.findNameReceiver(cursor.getInt(2)));
        m.setNameSender(this.findNameSender(cursor.getInt(1)));
        results.add(m);
      } while (cursor.moveToNext());
    }
    return (results);
  }