Are you going reactive?

Are you scared about manually writing all your SQL queries?

Are you evaluating definitely serious technologies like Vertx3?

Have a look at what JPO-RX can do for you: https://github.com/ufoscout/jporm/wiki

Is reactive still far from you?

Do you feel not comfortable with JPA and/or Hibernate and/or simila?

Do you think manual SQL writing is the shortest way to hell?

Have a look at how JPO-RM can help you: https://github.com/ufoscout/jporm/wiki